I am sure that many people wonder how parents miss the
signs of drug use. That is a very fair question. In fact, before this happened
to us, we wondered the same thing!
What a lot of people don’t realize is that there is a significant
overlap between normal teen behaviour and the signs of drug use. When you start seeing the signs that are
specific to drug use (stealing, poor hygiene, truancy, change in school, and lying),
the addict tends to be well into an addiction where they will need intervention
and treatment to get better.
Karla McCardle, Academic Youth Worker (and all-around wonderful
person), with the Strength Program,
provided me with these visuals showing the Characteristics of Youth, Signs of Substance
Use, and where they overlap.
With our son, we observed some of the signs in the overlap
area but not all of them. We simply thought he was going through a teenage
phase that he would grow out of. My Goodness, they were stressful times, though!
It wasn’t until high school that we started seeing the
specific signs of drug use such as truancy and change in attitude toward
school. At that time, he began to see an addictions counselor. We were at a loss of what to do. We worked with the school and addiction services but he continued on the path of self-destruction. We watched our bright and talented son go from being an academic student who was in French immersion and the band, to being a high school dropout.
As far as physical signs, I can tell you that youth who are
using drugs can hide it very well, especially from parents as inexperienced as
we were with drugs. There is a lot more information out there today so please find
out as much as you can in order to avoid the nightmare of addiction in your
home.
Physical
warning signs of drug abuse
·
Bloodshot
eyes, pupils larger or smaller than usual.
·
Changes
in appetite or sleep patterns. Sudden weight loss or weight gain.
·
Deterioration
of physical appearance, personal grooming habits.
·
Unusual
smells on breath, body, or clothing.
·
Tremors,
slurred speech, or impaired coordination.
Behavioral signs of drug abuse
·
Drop
in attendance and performance at work or school.
·
Unexplained
need for money or financial problems. May borrow or steal to get it.
·
Engaging
in secretive or suspicious behaviors.
·
Sudden
change in friends, favorite hangouts, and hobbies.
·
Frequently
getting into trouble (fights, accidents, illegal activities).
Psychological warning signs of drug
abuse
·
Unexplained
change in personality or attitude.
·
Sudden
mood swings, irritability, or angry outbursts.
·
Periods
of unusual hyperactivity, agitation, or giddiness.
·
Lack
of motivation; appears lethargic or “spaced out.”
·
Appears
fearful, anxious, or paranoid, with no reason.
If you are enjoying this blog, PLEASE SHARE it with your
friends. Please don’t assume that you know which families need to see it, and
which ones don’t. Addiction can happen to any family. It may already be happening
to a family who is close to you but you don’t know because they are in the shadows. Take it from someone who spent years in the shadows, much to the shock of the people who know us! Please share on
all your social media sites. You may save a life.
With many thanks for your support,
Rose
Rose
Thank you for this advice.
ReplyDeleteI particular like the diagram. It provide a good illustration on what overlapping signs would be about. This is very true. Everyone has been to being a youth and these characteristics have been present in a tolerable way. However, because drugs are just powerful enough to alter our way of thinking, these characteristics would go in an increasing level. It goes worse and worse if neglected until the person would find himself in a rehab centre.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this post. Substance abuse is really troublesome. It can affect our children's behavior that's why as early as we have detected the signs of addiction, an addiction intervention is essential for their recovery.
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome. Thank you for reading my blog. I absolutely agree that early intervention gives youth the best chance to overcome addiction.
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